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Kelsey Lamm Rottmuller (she | her)

LCPC, NCC

I am a licensed clinical professional counselor and sexuality coach and educator. I am also the founder and primary therapist of Wildwood Counseling and Coaching.

I am passionate about helping folks who don’t quite feel fully at home in their bodies learn how to connect and re-engage with their sexuality and most authentic expression of self.

The majority of my practice focuses on finding alignment and pleasure in expressing gender and sexual identity as well as healing after sexual, reproductive, or relationship trauma.

My approach is rooted in a person-centered philosophy while taking an integrative approach tailored to each client’s specific contexts and needs.

Prior to forming Wildwood, I worked at Concentric Counseling and Consulting and Chicago Counseling Associates; providing therapy services for individuals from adolescence through adulthood and folks in relationships. I also served youth survivors of sexual violence and their families as a rape crisis counselor and medical advocate.

​My career journey started in the performing arts; working as a stage and production manager for theatre, circus, dance, and opera; based in Chicago, and touring across the US. It was while teaching stage management in higher education that my passion for working in the helping and healing professions became crystalized and my professional identity evolved.

On a personal note

I am an individual whose various lived experiences have curated my values of authenticity, self-awareness, and pursuing one’s passions; even if the path taken is not the one expected.

Through my journeys in personal trauma recovery, changing careers, moving around and across the country, and transitioning into parenthood; I have found humility, courage, and empowerment in changing course when the path I was on no longer aligned with who I am and what fulfills me.

My personal experiences as both a client and a therapist have shown me what can be endured, overcome, and achieved when given a safe harbor and relationships in which to explore and expand. As a member of both the neurodivergent and 2SLGBTQIA+ communities, I particularly enjoy supporting erotically marginalized folks.

​I love and am honored by the work I do! As one who strives to nurture all aspects of my life, I like to recharge alone as well as with my family, friends, and fur-babies. To feel at my best within myself and in relationships with others, I spend as much time as I can in the natural world; backpacking, hiking, rock climbing, collecting crystals, camping, and general adventuring. The outdoor photos featured throughout this website are of places I have had the great privilege of traversing, and been able to capture (either myself or photo credit to Sophie Kempf) ‘on film’ to carry with me off-trail.

In my leisure time, I also enjoy practicing yoga, meditation, diving down documentary rabbit holes, and engaging with the arts that were central to my first career as a production and stage manager.

Credentials

Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in IL (LCPC) | Coming soon: Licensed Professional Counselor in CO (LPC)

National Certified Counselor (NCC)

Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP)

ADHD Certified Clinical Services Provider (ADHD-CCSP)

Member of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT)

Usui Reiki Level I Practitioner (Usui Shiki Ryoho)

Dr. Gabor Maté

“Every human has a true authentic self. Trauma is the disconnection from it and healing is the reconnection to it”

Esther Perel

“Our need for togetherness exists alongside our need for separateness”

Therapeutic Approaches

Proud Member of TherapyDen

Master of Education in Clinical Mental Health Counseling (DePaul University)

Certificate in Sex Therapy & Sexuality Education (University of Michigan SHCP)

Gottman Method Couples Therapy Level I (The Gottman Institute)

Treating Complex Trauma with Internal Family Systems (Frank Anderson)

EMDR for Treating PTSD and Complex Trauma (Dr. Arielle Schwartz and Stacy Ruse)

Conscious Breathwork (The Breathing Room)

Sexual Assault Crisis Counselor Certification (Illinois Coalition Against Sexual Assault)

Impact of Trauma on Relationships (NICAM)

Reproductive Trauma: Infertility, Pregnancy Loss, Birth Trauma, and Perinatal Mental Health (Dr. Janet Jaffe)

Autism, LGBTQIA+, and The Intersectionality of Gender and Sexuality (Dr. Wenn B. Lawson)

Men's Sexual Health Myths (AASECT)

Bringing Baby Home: The Transition to Parenthood (The Gottman Institute)

Multiple Securities: Navigating Consensual Non-monogamy and Attachment (KPACT)

Working with Mixed Desire (Kink/Vanilla) Relationships (UofM SHCP)

The Transformative Power of Eros (Ergos Institute of Somatic Education)

Sex Beyond the Binary: Re-Visioning Sex Therapy for Every Body (UofM SHCP)

Working with Transgender Clients Across the Lifespan (Chicago Counseling Associates)

Unsettling Genders: Honoring Emergent & Indigenous Conversations of Diversity (AASECT)

Black Men and Racial Trauma (UofM SHCP)

Incorporating Psychedelic Medicines for Treating Complex Trauma and PTSD (PESI)

Managing ADHD Across the Lifespan (PESI)

Disordered and Emotional Eating and Body Image (PESI)

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) (PESI)

Training

Are you ready to see where the journey could go?